Gratitude Journal: How to Start and 20 Prompts to Begin Today

Writing down a few things you are thankful for each day is one of the simplest habits with the longest-lasting impact.

Published on September 14, 20266 min read

What is a gratitude journal?

It is a journal where you regularly write down specific things you are grateful for: people, moments, places, or simple pleasures. Positive psychology research, including studies by Robert Emmons and Michael McCullough, has linked this practice to greater well-being and a more optimistic outlook on life.

How to do it in five minutes

Pick a consistent time, usually right before bed. Write down three to five things from your day that you are thankful for. Add the reason why in a short sentence: instead of just "my friend," write "my friend waited for me with a hot chocolate and made me feel supported."

Common mistakes to avoid

Repeating the exact same things (family, health, job) until it turns into a mindless routine. Writing in overly broad, vague terms without specific details. Treating it like an obligation—if nothing comes to mind one day, that is completely fine. And forcing yourself to feel positive when you do not: gratitude can comfortably coexist with difficult days.

20 gratitude prompts for your first entries

What small thing made me smile today?
Who helped me this week?
Which person in my life am I grateful to have close?
What meal or drink was the highlight of my day?
What place makes me feel at home?
What song resonated with me?
What something I take for granted would be tough to lose?
What did I learn today?
What mistake taught me something valuable?
What part of my body, senses, or abilities am I thankful for today?

What childhood memory brings me joy?
What kind thing did someone do without even realizing it?
What opportunity do I have now that I didn't have before?
What part of the day did I enjoy most?
What brought me relief today?
What item at home makes my life easier?
What view, landscape, or glimpse of the sky caught my eye?
What conversation did me good?
What went better than expected?
What would I like to remember about today ten years from now?

Gratitude and memory: why it's worth keeping

Rereading your gratitude journal on a rough day is deeply comforting. In MyDiary, the people and places mentioned in your entries are also saved as profile cards, letting you see how often you have expressed gratitude for someone.

Frequently asked questions

How many things should I write in a gratitude journal?

Between three and five, with a bit of detail. It is much better to list a few specific moments than a long list of generic items.

How long does it take to notice the benefits?

It varies from person to person. Many people notice a shift in how they spot positive moments after a few weeks of consistent practice.

Can I combine it with a regular diary?

Of course. You can simply wrap up your daily entries with a quick two- or three-line gratitude section.

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